Saturday, December 30, 2017

The cold within

   Every once and a while a book, article or poem crosses my path and attracts my attention. What I have come to appreciate since becoming part of a journalistic world is how difficult it sometimes can be to put thoughts down on paper and have them make sense to the reader. I know what I want to say, but the challenge becomes selecting the words so others understand my thoughts. It is easy to come up with words. Our vocabulary has too many of them. It is more difficult to choose the ones that express the emotion and passion I wish to share.
   I have come to admire those writers who make the art of writing seem so effortless. Whether it is a news story or one of these crazy columns, it has sharpened my writing skills and given me a new understanding of how difficult it can be to express oneself in written words.
   I am always on the lookout for something that causes me to pause, ponder the message and challenge my thinking. It is somewhat of an test for my personal grounding and values.
   Several years ago I came across a poem. I had all but forgotten about it until I found packed away in a folder with some meaningless piece of paper as I cleaned and straighten up the garage. So much for my appreciation of literature, right?
   As I read it again for the first time in many years, I was struck by its message, simple, yet a revelation about people and human behavior. A cold chill ran up and down my spine ,along with that “aha” moment, as I thought about the sticks of wood that I often hold in my hand.
   I do not remember how the poem came into my possession or anything about the writer other than his name. I believe I was told it was written by a high school student. Whether that is true or not, I don't know. But regardless of his age, the message is insightful and packed with some powerful life lessons.
   So for your reading pleasure..............

                                      The Cold Within

Six humans trapped by happenstance, in bleak and bitter cold,
Each one possessed a stick of wood, or so the story's told.

Their dying fire in need of logs, the first man held his back,
For of the faces 'round the fire, he noticed one was black.

The next man looking cross the way, saw one not from his church,
And couldn't bring himself to give the fire his stick of birch.

The third one sat in tattered clothes, he gave his coat a hitch,
Why should his log be put to use to warm the idle rich.

The rich man just sat back and thought of the wealth he had in store,
And how to keep what he had earned from lazy, shiftless poor.

The black man's face bespoke revenge as the fire passed from sight,
For all he saw in his stick of wood was a chance to spite the white.

The last man of this forlorn group did naught except for gain,
Giving only to those who gave was how he played the game.

Their logs held tight in death's still hand was proof of human sin,
They didn't die from the cold outside, they died from the the cold within.

                                                                Jay Patrick Kinney



Thursday, December 14, 2017

The bully pulpit and other political devices.........



   Definition: According to Wikipedia, a “bully pulpit” is defined as a position sufficiently conspicuous to provide an opportunity to speak out and be listened to.

   I recently came across an article about Theodore Roosevelt, one of our more colorful American Presidents and remembered that he had coined the phrase “bully pulpit”, using the White House as his 'pulpit' from which he attempted to generate public support for his political policies and agendas. For sure, being President of the United States, today more commonly referred to as POTUS, is certainly a position of power and of potentially significant influence, a 'bully pulpit' for those who wish to be leaders. But along with that advantage of 'the pulpit' comes responsibility and a level of respect for the influence it yields. Perhaps local state houses also become 'bully pulpits' for governors or wanna be's and other local leaders as well.
   Before going on, however, let me add that in the days of President Roosevelt, the word 'bully' had a much different meaning than it does today, a more positive meaning. 'Bully' was an adjective meaning wonderful, superb, outstanding. When someone shouted “bully for you” it meant “good for you!”
   Today, however, the term 'bully' has a different meaning. A 'bully' is someone who uses 'negative tactics' as a way to force, intimidate or dominate others, bullying tactics.
   From a bit of my past, at a fairly young age, Timmy Barrett would attempt to bully me on the playground after school in an attempt to get me to give him my baseball glove. No way! Of course, my first name often contributed to taunts and name-calling as well from some of his friends.... until the day I picked up a stick and whacked Timmy across his forehead. From that point on and after a trip to the principal's office, Timmy never bothered me again.
   From the days of Teddy Roosevelt to 2017, being a bully has evolved from being “wonderful and superb” to being someone who uses force and coercion to get what they want. Sound familiar?
  Having been on the side of one who has been bullied, at the time I was too young to really understood the motivation and reasons. Yes, I had a nice baseball glove, lived in a home with a mother and father, did not live on the street or was not homeless as a child.
   I had goals and dreams. True. I came from a middle class family, although some thought my family was rich. I wanted to go on to college, become successful at a job and raise a family. I felt an obligation to give back to my country and community. I wasn't angry, didn't carry a chip on my shoulder because I had been forced out of my house to live on the street or feel the need to make fun of others others who I perceived as better than I was. I had the support of caring adults in my life, both family and friends.
   A person can not walk through any school hallway at any grade level in Maine without seeing the signs and posters about “bullying'. “Just Say No to Bullying.” This is a Bully-Free Zone.
   But I have come to the conclusion, over time and life experiences, that the key to whether someone becomes a bully or remains as one as an adult is rooted in role models and a feeling of being in control of one's life. The prerequisites for success are a matter of perception. If a person feels there is an imbalance is social or political power then that person will use the behaviors they feel necessary to either level the playing field or in some cases, even gain the upper hand. And often those behaviors will follow into adulthood.
   I often wonder what motivates someone to run for a political office. Is it a desire to serve, to give back in some way to those who had been a positive impact on a life or is it driven by the need to gain or regain control over something which there is little or no control. Is it to gain the advantage of having a 'bully pulpit' in order to be heard?
   It was easy for me to pick up the stick and hit Timmy in the forehead. It felt good! And although I was frustrated at the time with Timmy's constant bullying me, standing up to the bullying may have turned out to be a good thing. I proved to myself and others at a young age that I could take on the bully and win.

   In its original definition, a 'bully pulpit ' was a position of conspicuous opportunity to speak out and be listened to. But that definition has changed. What happens when a 'bully pulpit' becomes nothing more than a present day 'bully'? Is that effective leadership? And what happens when the bully realizes that no one is listening or cares any more?

Saturday, December 9, 2017

The Twelve Days of Christmas revisited.......


   I am so excited that the President of the United States has given his permission for us to say "Merry Christmas" again that I thought I would celebrate his personal holiday generosity by updating some of  my favorite holiday carols...oops...I meant to say Christmas carols.
 
  So for starters, I thought I might start with the 12 Days of Christmas. You all know how the tune goes, so feel free to sing along.
                 
                                                                                               
                                                                        😃😃😃😃😃


   On the 1st of Christmas my President gave to me......a "yuge" income tax increase to offset the decrease he gave to himself, his family and the others living in the swamp.

   On the 2nd of Christmas, my President gave to me....cuts to my medicare (as a retiree so I would have to pay more out of pocket ) and with it a guarantee  to increase  my health insurance premiums.

   On the 3d of Christmas my President gave to me..... three chants of "lock her up"

   On the 4th of Christmas my President gave to me.... four different lies about Russia and his non-involvement in collusion.

   On the 5th day of Christmas my President gave to me..... five new tweets about Jim Comey. He just can't let this go!!

   On the 6th day of Christmas my President gave to me....  a complete 'unedited', edited set of Sarah Huckaby Sanders' White House daily briefings dating back to her first day on the job, along with a signed copy of her promise not to lie to the press.

   On the 7th day  of Christmas my President gave to me....all of his excuses and denials that he has done nothing to obstruct justice, at least in the past week.

   On the 8th day of Christmas my President gave to me.... eight denials that he ever touched or attempted to  mistreat maids a milking.

   On the 9th day of Christmas my President gave to me....nine drummers drumming with a list of all he has accomplished since he took office in January.     
 
   On the 10th day of Christmas my President gave to me....a year's free subscription to Fox News so that I can get the real news and not that fake 'stuff' the others  report out about him.

   On the 11th day of Christmas my President gave to me....eleven Big Macs, , 5 chocolate milk shakes and a bottle of antacid tablets.

   On the 12th day of Christmas my President gave me a list of everyone he has or will fire before the end of the year

   And on 13th day of Christmas  ( oh my, one too many),  my President gave to me......his official letter of resignation, resigning from the position of President, because he found it interfered with his golf schedule and his overseas trips to check on his new hotels in Russia!

   And with that......I wish you all a Merry Christmas and maybe something to look forward to next year
 

Monday, December 4, 2017

Tired of it!!!!! Just plain tired

Perhaps the time has come to reread Henry David Thoreau"s Civil Disobedience.